Femdom
2 pieces kept here, at Femdom.
On domination
A site for Setting boundaries in a female-led relationship
Femdom keeps notes on Setting boundaries in a female-led relationship. Nothing here is a sales page; it is the reading, kept in order.
The canon of taste, being the body of writing admitted to this site, and nothing else, ordains as follows.
- A work is admitted when it has been argued, not when it has been asked for
- Once admitted, a work is not withdrawn
- Everything written here is measured against the canon
The canon
Everything we have published about setting boundaries in a female-led relationship, in one place.
Meets
2 pieces filed under this desk at Femdom.
Before
1 piece so far at Femdom.
Bellatrix's
1 piece in the Femdom drawer.
Cottelli
1 piece kept here, at Femdom.
Drops
1 piece in the Femdom drawer.
Register of admissions
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Clauses
The clauses the canon is worked by
These are the standing clauses. The articles above are what has been admitted; the clauses are the terms it was admitted on.
- Argument before admission A work is admitted on the strength of what it says, argued in the open and read by everyone.
- No admission on request Asking for a place in the canon is not an argument, and is never treated as one.
- The register is the record Every admission keeps its number, and the number is quoted wherever it is cited.
The desks
Everything here is about Setting boundaries in a female-led relationship. It is filed under femdom, meets, before, bellatrix's.
On Femdom, that means Setting boundaries in a female-led relationship.
How to start
New to Setting boundaries in a female-led relationship? Start here.
This is how Femdom would put it, for Setting boundaries in a female-led relationship.
- Agree it firstNothing is agreed on the day. The rate. The time. The limits. What is off the table. All of it, in writing, before anyone meets.
- Say what you wantA first session goes wrong when both people are guessing. Write your limits down. Send them. Read the other side's.
- Book the room, not the fantasyAsk what the session looks like, end to end. A vague answer deserves a second question.
Ground rules
Safewords come first. Boundaries come second. Aftercare comes third. None of the three is optional here, and all three are on the record before the session rather than decided in the moment. Any session can be stopped, by either person, at any point, without explaining yourself first.
The rules cover Femdom.
About Femdom
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Enquiries
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